gestures which only we know are erotic c) subtly, like the sound
of distant music.
73. In love making, pain plays
a) an important part b) on occasional role c) no part at all,
unless you’re a pervert.
74. The use of erotic words and sounds in foreplay
a) excites me b) does not upset me but I do not use them myself
c) turns me off.
75. During foreplay I like
a) bright lights b) soft illumination c) darkness.
76. Dressing up erotically is
a) exciting b) OK for my sexual partner but not for me
c) absurd.
77. The use of vibrators, brushes, gloves and other equipment during
foreplay is
a) fun b) OK for a change c) perverse.
78. Fellatio and Cunnilingus are
a) normal and exciting b) OK for a change c) unnatural and
sickening.
79. With me foreplay normally lasts
a) under half an hour b) half an hour to an hour c) an hour to
two hours d) over two hours.
80. Ideally, with me, intercourse normally lasts
a) under 15 minutes b) 15 minutes to a half an hour c) a half an
hour to 1 hour d) over 1 hour.
81. In intercouse I prefer
a) the man on top and the woman below b) the woman on top and
the man below c) a variety of positions.
82. If I had my way I would enjoy intercouse most
a) in a bed b) on the floor c) in the open d) in unusual
places.
83. The movements in intercourse should be
a) quick and passionate b) varied c) slow and controlled.
84. If I see myself in a mirror during intercourse it
a) excites me b) amuses me c) embarrasses me.
85. During intercourse I normally
a) fantasize b) think only of my lover c) lose myself in the
sensations of lovemaking.
86. I believe that learning to control the muscles used in
intercourse is
a) well worth the effort b) possibly worth while if we could
find the time c) pointless in our modern world.
87. I feel that moments of stillness, without movement, at the peak
of intercourse
a) enhance the ecstasy of intercourse b) help to prolong
intercourse c) are an unnecessary interruption.
88. Intercourse without orgasm
a) can be ecstatic in a very special way b) might be necessary
but does not add to the pleasure of intercourse c) is incomplete
and might be dangerous.
89. In intercourse it is essential to
a) seek your own satisfaction because your partner’s satisfaction
will follow as a matter of course b) keep your pleasure in line
with your partner’s c) seek your partner’s ecstasy because then
yours will follow.
90. The ecstasy of sex likes in
a) the body b) the glands c) the mind.
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