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sexual activity. When we understand that so many of these
individuals see sex as the original sin, it is easy to
understand the misdefinition of the word LUST. Lust is
merely the physical side of sexual desire, divorced
somewhat from love. Love details the emotional state of
two people together, whereas lust defines the physical.
Lust can be experienced without the trappings of love very
rarely in our society. ETAP allows us to change this. With
ETAP as our motivating focus, we can recognize desire, and
channel it independent of a love interest. When the lust
motivation is present in an individual who cannot
differentiate between lust and love, or can differentiate
but feels guilt associated with the lust not love
relationship, the focus of desire is diminished, guilt
replaces happiness, and sadness and confusion grow where
there should be happiness and enjoyment. One of the first
questions an ETAP follower should ask him/her self is
this: “Am I in love/like with this person, or do I desire
a physical experience(s) with him/her?” When the answer is
determined, and if it is the latter of the two choices,
then the Erosian should be very aware that the
relationship is fun, enjoyable, growth oriented, but
should not place love-valued emotions into play. False
love can build unnecessary jelousy, anger, guilt and lack
of self worth. You need to remember what you are and why
you are doing what you do. Don’t be afraid or guilty to
call a sexual relationship what it is; a sexual
relationship. If both parties define the terms, it becomes
comprehendable to forsee relationships where two or three
people get together because of a specific sexual desire,
and work toward fulfilling that desire. It is not
impossible to forsee special interest groups formed where
the members would exchange ideas and work toward a
guiltless group that could interact together. The key to
this is honest and open communication and participation.

Philosophy aside, there is also a certain degree to be
said about performance and satisfaction. If an Erosian
recognizes his or her sexuality, they must also have a
desire to increase their abilites. In otherwords, a
by-line to ETAP is increased sexual prowess. Please
remember that this is not a measure of how much you please
youself, but how much you please your partner. Mutual
satisfaction leads to greater input from each partner, and
makes positive growth faster and stronger. (For more
information on physical activities see Sexual Practices
and Guidelines)

But to the focus of the treatise: The Physical Self. To
paraphrase Stephen Hayes, reknowned martial artist and
author, “I have experienced many things that people would
say go beyond the physical realm. However upon closer
examination, I have found that they are inherently
physical.” The purpose of his statement was to show that
many times we associate the occult and the unknown with
magic and evil, when in reality, these things are the most
natural, and most assuredly of the physical realm.

In my concept of the physical plane, I find that all
things come from the state of the physical self. Our
body’s organs, glands, nerves, etc are the instruments of
our passage of this plane. The health of these tools and
our ability to utilize them for our own pleasure is the
focus of Erosian Physicality.

If we conceive of the power that drives our physical
bodies as energy, or the aura as I call it, then positive
reinforcement of the structure that houses that power can
only be good. The pleasure associated by the experience of
the focused power in action is often seen by a runner’s
“high”, an adrenalin surge, or in our situation, the
orgasm. To enhance this pleasure, we should follow a
course that stresses health, fitness and training of our
sexual selves. When the physical self is honed to a fine
point where we can experience the pleasures of orgasm in
depth and focused, then we can begin to channel the energy
released at this point for positive use in our lives.

The point of physicality and the physical self is of value
to the Erosian only. Sadly in today’s world, many people
experience orgasm like a fast food meal. Quick and tasty,
but lacking in nutrition, and with no real value to the
senses. Orgasm should be the dessert in a seven course
meal, the coup de’ gras of the experience, to be savored
and remembered. However unlike a seven course meal, an
orgasm should be a frequent and common activity.

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can be a delightful way for a woman to fulfill a fantasy
of being reversed with her partner, and men, homosexual or
not can find a huge degree of pleasure in anal
stimulation. Anal stimulation also can be practiced as a
masturbatory act, and may allow the Erosian a chance to
experiment as to his or her likes and dislikes regarding
this alternative sex act.

C,D,I,J – Water Sports and Enemas are very closely related
in the scheme of sexual classification. Water sports can
include any sexual activity involving urination. Also
called Golden Showers, or Golden Rain, water sports
involve one party urinating on another which heightens the
sexual excitement. The location of the urination varies,
and some receivers prefer the genitals, the chest, the
stomach, the face or even the mouth as the target. Water
sports evolve on many levels, some relating to
dominant/submissive fantasies in which one person derives
pleasure from dominating the other with the act of
urination, to other levels where it is the actual act of
urinating that elicits pleasure. Mutual water sports are
not unusual where both parties are involved in giving and
receiving the urination. Water sports also project as far
as the drinking and swallowing of urine (in some countries
this is practiced daily for ‘health’ measures) direct for
the giver.

Enemas involve the injection or introduction of liquids
into the anus and rectum. Initially designed for cleansing
and clearing the rectum of matter, enemas can play a large
role in alternative sexuality. The person highly involved
in anal sex will take an interest in enemas as a way to
clean the rectum prior to anal intercourse. At the same
time, it should be noted that some people find the act of
enema giving and receiving pleasurable in itself. Related
both to water sports and to anal sex, enemas can be seen
as a addition to the sexual world.

Also along the same lines lies the topic of douching. Long
established as a way to clean the vagina before sex, after
sex, and after the monthly period, douching for the
aqua-erotic may prove to be stimulating as a item in
itself.

As bizarre as these different aquatic pastimes may seem,
they are accepted and understood forms of sexual
involvement. Many people might feel guilt or shame for
fantasizing or involving themselves in these activities,
but Erosian Theory puts an end to the shame. If it feels
good and doesn’t hurt anyone, do it! If it feels good, do
…End of the part2. To be continued..